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Quickly Get More LoveAnger is love's poison and the leading cause of a loveless, sexless relationship — but it doesn't have to be that way.Learn about an innovative new anger management system developed by a prominent family therapist. |
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"They Laughed When I Told Them I Was Going To Fix My Broken Marriage . . . Until They Saw Us Together Like Newlyweds"It can happen to anyone. I know. It happened to me. The marriage that was meant to last forever was in a deep dive to hell within 5 years. We used to
care and respect each other. Laugh together. We used share feelings and dreams
and feel safe together. Our love-life was full of romance, passion, and
excitement. And, like lots of folks, we would argue from time to time. Doesn't everybody? Yet somehow our seemingly "ordinary" bickering went terribly wrong. Slowly "relationship anger" had gotten between us and now it was pulling us apart piece by piece. Without noticing when or how, bit by bit, argument by argument, we changed into the type of couple we never wanted to be. It seemed like my wife was always trying to push my buttons, to get me all worked up and mad by doing and saying things she knew would get under my skin. Our relationship was infected with anger and it spoiled every moment we were together. So I avoided talking to her, stopped telling her about my day. It's not like I was cheating or drinking or gambling. It was just easier not to share feelings and ideas that she would anyway just shoot down, criticize, or make fun of. To avoid the relentless fighting at home I found all kinds of reasons to stay out after work. Harmless stuff. Except sometimes I had to stretch the truth a bit to keep the peace. The more I stayed out and the less I communicated, the more my wife wanted to know and the more she wanted to control me and my activities. Yet the more I stayed home, the worse we fought. Talk about a lose-lose situation. It got to
the point where we couldn't be together for more than a few minutes
before the merry-go-round of accusations, putdowns, and the "you always"
digs were counter-attacked by yelling, door slams, and furious gestures.
When we were together, she would press and probe for details and find
fault in just about everything I did. I would try to be calm (honestly),
but would always end up fuming and say things I wouldn't normally
say-hurtful, mean things. I often found myself snapping at my wife (even the infrequent times when she talked to me respectfully) because I was expecting each conversation to sour and spin out of control into a confrontation. It's almost like I wanted to protect myself by being the first to hurt - instead of being the first to be hurt. And things got worse. The couch became my 2nd address. I felt like I was riding an emotional rollercoaster. So much drama! Listen, I bet if you grew up like I did, you were taught that you do everything to keep important relationships healthy. You work on them; do whatever it takes to make them right. But I tell you straight out, I didn't feel like I had a snowball's chance in hell to be happy and "normal" again in my marriage. By now the word was out. Wendy and I were in serious trouble. Our relationship anger was killing us. A buddy of mine stopped me as I was getting into my car at the gym. "Here," he said. And he handed me a CD. "What's this?" I ask. "Your ticket out of the mess you're in," he says with a smile. "Tony, I'm not in any mood for mind-games right now, I already have my fill with the wife, thank you very much!" "Kevin," he says to me. "Listen up. You and I are more alike then you think. Remember how Lisa and I used to be?" Boy. Did I remember? One or the other of those two used to always be in a stone cold silence or fierce fury when together in public. You felt their anger. No one expected them to last. Everyone wondered why they got together in the first place; they were always so miserable. But you wouldn't know it these days though. From out of nowhere Tony and Lisa hung up their fighting gloves and grew into a lovey-dovey-"Perfect Couple." And they have remained so good together and to each other that everyone just about forgot how bad they used to be. So now that I am remembering all this, I tell Tony
he REALLY has my attention now. Here is what he says to me: "That CD I
just gave to you? I listened to that CD for just a 8-minutes Some People Think That Life Is Something That Just Happens To Them. Not True. Tony was telling me, just like I'm telling you, dear reader; you CAN transform a rocky marriage into a loving relationship. You can put an end to relationship anger. So guess what I did? I started listening to that Anger
Control CD for 8-minutes each day and that was it. The messages
p After a few days, Wendy's mood softened. Listening to her became easier. She stopped chastising me. After a few weeks, I was respected (that's how it was when we first got together!). Wendy now saw me as a strong man-in control of myself! She liked being with me. We were like two opposing magnets that suddenly reversed direction! Looking back, I was shocked how much
heart-ache anger caused. I never meant to wreck my relationship or hurt
Wendy. But slowly overtime, bickering led to criticism, hostility led to
resentment. We both brought up divorce. Now we greet
each other upon waking in the morning, we talk during the day, smile and
laugh, and lovingly wish each other a 'good night'
— with many nights filled with passion and romance. I'm happy . . . and
so is Wendy.
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Introducing the easiest solution to an anger stressed relationship: the
Anger Control audio course. This is
the most effective tool I know to quickly and effectively stop anger
from ruining your relationship with the person you want love from. In only
8-minutes-a-day for 3-weeks (average for most people) you can be the
strong in control person you want to be and bring back the
"LOVE" that once was.
► Why this course is so great? Traditional learning is based on the intense cramming of information. Scientific research in how memory works has demonstrated the best way to learn is with short lessons known as "Spaced Learning." Utilizing this latest research, learning for only "8-minutes-a-day" will teach you how to significantly reduce, or even eliminate, the harmful expressions of anger. Altogether there are seven, scientifically based, specialized learning technologies: 8-minutes-a-day lessons, Interactive educational techniques, Full-mind learning, Wisdom, Targeted solutions, Practical skills, and Independent learning. ► Alternative to professional therapy. For many individuals, this self-therapy approach is a great alternative to professional marriage counselling and anger management therapy. Save time, money, and maintain your privacy. Learn when and where you want. ► Developed by a master clinician. Developed by family therapist Abe Kass, M.A., R.S.W., R.M.F.T., who has over twenty-years of success helping individuals learn anger management. After many years of research and testing he created a scientifically advanced audio course; a no-nonsense, get straight-to-the-point, solution for those that suffer from all forms of anger. ►
What other professionals say: "This CD is a valuable resource
for all who want to improve their lives and the lives of those they live
with. At last, something that is simple and easy to use. This CD is an
outstanding contribution to all who want to live healthy lives. Having
known and worked closely with Abe Kass over the years, his success and
talent as a family therapist is now accessible to everyone everywhere."
Dr. Leo Steiner, PhD, psychologist. ► This Anger Control audio course has two repeating lessons; one for your intellectual-mind and the other for your feeling-mind, and a third deep relaxation lesson. A FREE Anger Control Reference Guide is included. Total course is about 54 minutes. ► Anger and Love don't mix. If you want love — get rid of anger! AND I MEAN ALL KINDS OF LOVE! Anger is the #1 reason marriages and other committed relationships fail. With a little self-improvement, you can get a lot more love! Build your relationship — increase your love, intimacy and sexuality. ACT NOW — GET STARTED WITH AN INCREDIBLY EFFECTIVE ANGER CONTROL TOOL.Listen and learn at home, work, or when traveling. Requires 8-minutes-a-day for about 3-weeks (average for most people). Many individuals experience immediate results. Choose your format: Immediate Digital Download MP3 or CD. If you live in North America we will gladly ship the CD format FREE of charge in a nondescript package. 
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each day for 3-weeks. It worked on me on a
very deep level.
Almost like magic, just by listening and following a few simple
suggestions, I found myself changing how I react to things Lisa says and
does. To my ever-growing surprise, Lisa couldn't 'make me' upset like
she used to. Comments that used to make me 'fly off the handle' and make
my 'blood boil' were now rolling off me like water off a duck's back. Lisa
didn't listen to the CD, but it didn't matter because the more I changed
in a good way, she changed
for the better too."
enetrated deeply. More important, this Anger Control CD taught me how
to react differently when the anger provoking situations came-up. From
the very first day, my responses to Wendy changed. Whatever she said or
did, remained as such. Something she did-she got no hostile reaction
from me. Simply . . . I stayed calm. And since it takes two to fight-we
stopped arguing.
This is all gone now.
Occasionally we have a tense moment. But it passes quickly.
